Recently I had a three clients with a lot of Libra. They all had the same problem. They simply could not decide! I have Libra myself so I’m well acquainted with the struggle.
I have never met a Libra who could comfortably choose the restaurant where a duo or a group of people should go eat. It’s like there is a gigantic block there. They will go to any lengths to avoid deciding. If you spend time with a Libra, you’ll eventually realize this and quit trying to push them into their “no go zone”.
Exceptions exist when the Libra is doing a favor for someone else or has some kind of obligation. For example, I told a child I was teaching that I would come eat in his parent’s restaurant. I have a friend I go to lunch with, frequently. I kept my word but it’s the only time I’ve chosen the venue over the last six years! It’s pretty crazy… and embarrassing! I don’t even like to choose what we’re going to eat at home and I’m the cook!
While I hold onto this particular expression of the energy, I have learned to make decisions because if you can’t or you won’t, you will utterly fail at life. I’m sorry but it’s the way it is.
I learned how to do this from husband who has Mercury in Aries. We’re doing this and we’re not doing that, BAM! It’s a wonderful feeling once you get into it.
I’m posting this because one of the clients was damned near disabled by this issue. He could not decide what to do about a woman he liked because he could not decide if she liked him. Even with many indications she did like him, he still could not decide. He was young. I wound up telling him, this could be a core problem in life. How do you get off the fence?
Here’s an old post with other ideas.
Do you have Libra in your chart? Are you indecisive? How has this impacted your life?